Terrible Twos
Samuel is teaching me the meaning of the expression “terrible twos.”
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Samuel is teaching me the meaning of the expression “terrible twos.” I always thought that referred to a sudden onset of sinful self-will, but that’s not true in his case. He’s obedient and well-behaved for a child of his age, but because of his age, he is always into something or up to something, and it’s often something I wish he weren’t into or up to. So the crux of it is that I feel I am constantly after him, “Don’t reach onto the counter . . . don’t touch the stove . . . don’t bite the baby . . . get off the baby . . . don’t whine . . . sit at the table to eat . . . don’t draw in the book . . . close the refrigerator . . . put your pants back on . . . . ” By the end of the day I usually feel completely drained and hopelessly frazzled. He is at such a cute age. He is learning so much and able to do so many things, but I find it difficult to enjoy the process because I feel like I am constantly locked in a struggle with him as he tests and retests the boundaries I’ve set. Eventually something has to give, so he usually ends up running around the apartment completely naked from the waist down. At least that makes it super easy for him to use the potty, which he now does without any help or prompting from me.
Samuel is teaching me the meaning of the expression “terrible twos.” I always thought that referred to a sudden onset of sinful self-will, but that’s not true in his case. He’s obedient and well-behaved for a child of his age, but because of his age, he is always into something or up to something, and it’s often something I wish he weren’t into or up to. So the crux of it is that I feel I am constantly after him, “Don’t reach onto the counter . . . don’t touch the stove . . . don’t bite the baby . . . get off the baby . . . don’t whine . . . sit at the table to eat . . . don’t draw in the book . . . close the refrigerator . . . put your pants back on . . . . ” By the end of the day I usually feel completely drained and hopelessly frazzled. He is at such a cute age. He is learning so much and able to do so many things, but I find it difficult to enjoy the process because I feel like I am constantly locked in a struggle with him as he tests and retests the boundaries I’ve set. Eventually something has to give, so he usually ends up running around the apartment completely naked from the waist down. At least that makes it super easy for him to use the potty, which he now does without any help or prompting from me.
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